Psychology
often fascinates me especially as I mature and grow older. You can start to
reflect back to how you have been bought up and how it can effect your
behavior, attitude, and how you respond to challenging situations in your
life.
Let's face it;
life comes with problems, however they needn't be problems. It is how we see
and react to a problem, challenge or fall. With a negative attitude or positive.
Children fall
when they are young, whether it is physically and hurt themselves or whether it could
be failing and exam, they feel like they have fallen and can out them into a
dark place or a low place where it can be hard to pick themselves up.
I remember this
clearly as a child. I remember the pain, but I also remember having the courage
to pick myself up and try again.
These days
living in today’s world being surrounded by treats, junk food and unlimited
supply of toys, discount stores and even your local supermarkets it is becoming a
toy shop filled with sugarary lollies.
It is important as Parents get back to nature and reward our children with the simple things
in life. Get creative and make them a card, a note, or a bunch of home made
flowers. If you want to treat them with a really special gift then it could be
an experience, like a 'Ice skating' or 'camping' 'Bush walk picnic'
Try this week
to find a special treat without using food, especially junk food. The danger of
using sugary food as it can act as a trigger. In theory every time the child
falls, fails, or hurts themselves they could be at risk later on in life '
binging' on sugary food or using a food to comfort them when faced with
challenges, obstacles or at a low point of their life.
Children adapt
so easily and all it takes is strength and commitment to follow through with what truly will
serve our children the best when it comes to health and mindset attitudes.
Practicing
positive affirmations, giving praise and listening along with that special
natural simple gift to lift spirits and that just maybe a big cuddle and spending
Mummy or Daddy one on one time.
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